SUPERDHY

I'm beginning to let go Releasing what one was held back The words, the feelings, the looks I try to be myself Especially when I’m with you It wasn’t working so well But now... it’s different I don’t know what happened But it’s different I don’t get mad I’m less depressed I can almost look myself in the face And not cringe at the mirror I think of you And I am filled with that warm fuzzy feeling The same I get when you hold me tight Or squeeze me light, whatever be the reason I’m letting myself go And I hope against hope You’ll catch me before I fall

Commitments are complicated. We may surprise ourselves by the commitments we're willing to make, true commitment, takes effort, and sacrifice. Which is why sometimes, we have to learn the hard way, to choose our commitments very carefully.   Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caught within your chest?? -It isn't love, it's LIKE. You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am right?? -It isn't love, it's LUST. Are you proud, and eager to show them off?? -It isn't love, it's LUCK. Do you want them because you know they're there?? -It isn't love, it's LONELINESS. Are you there because it's what everyone wants?? -It isn't love, it's LOYALTY. Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?? -It isn't love, it's LOW CONFIDENCE. Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them?? -It isn't love, it's PI...

If you want to create a great (or even good) relationship or marriage, here's something you might want to keep an eye open for...  Whether you are currently in a marriage, in a long-term relationship, at the beginning stages of coming together with someone or not with a partner at the present time--one of the best ways we know of to begin creating the kind of relationship that you want is to keep your eyes open 1.  Keep the romance alive Take some time to do something that will make your partner feel special and loved. It can be anything simple like listening attentively to your partner's activity during the day. Make it a habit to tell and show your partner you love them everyday. 2.  Don't lie to your partner I am sure we all don't want to be told lies so lets do unto others as we want done unto us. Avoid all situations that will put you in a position where you have to lie. Remember it can take a simple lie to make your partner lose thei...

Breaking up is never fun. The end of a relationship means the beginning of a period of mourning and healing for both people. If the break up was mutual both people will experience a period of adjustment where they are getting used to no longer being together. If the break up was not mutual the person who ended things may be dealing with guilt and feelings that they may have made a mistake. The person being broken up with will definitely have to adjust, first to being rejected and second to life without somebody they still care for. How do you get through those first few weeks? 1. Avoid the former love. Yes, avoid. No, this isn’t being immature. Seeing your former flame can bring out emotions and may cause you do to or say something you will regret. In the first few weeks the best thing you can do for yourself is not be where you know they will be. 2. Talk out your feelings with close friends. Get everything out so that you won’t hold it inside. Your friends ma...

There was a time in my life when I became afraid to fall in love again. Because every time I fell in love, I got hurt. I would give my all, loving deeply and wholeheartedly. It would be a truly emotional, euphoric experience. I would be dreaming about the object of my affection all day and all night, imagining good times together, thinking of what I can do or buy for him to show how much I care.I would feel as light as a feather, energized and excited, literally blooming with the joy I feel inside. And at times when things would go wrong, my whole world would crash. Disappointment, Resentment, Anger, Pain is what I would feel next. Why? Can we not love without getting hurt? Do we really have to pay the price for all the happiness we feel inside when we are in love? Should we just accept that because we love, we risk getting hurt? It was only after many years of soul-searching and reading inspirational writings that I realized that we could actually love without get...

S tepping up, it's a simple concept. It basically means to rise above yourself, to do a little more, to show your something special. Life is funny sometimes, it can push pretty hard, like when you fall in love with someone but they forget to love you back, like when your best friend and your boyfriend leave you alone, like when you pull the trigger or light the flame and you can’t take it back.    Like I said, in sports they call this stepping up. In life I call it pushing back. You know, it’s been said that we don't recognize the significant moments of our lives while their happening. We grow complacent with ideas or people and we take them for granted. It’s usually not until that thing is about to be taken away from you that you realize how wrong you’ve been, that you realize how much you need it, how much you love it. Have you ever heard the expression ‘the best things in life are free’, well that expression is true.  Every once in a while peo...

She said she had to go. Why does it take a minute to say hello and forever to say goodbye? We still had some time left and I was trying to drag it as long as possible. Only problem was I couldn’t think of anything that would force her to spend some more time with me. “So do you need a lift to some place?”, I asked hopefully … “No“, she said, she’d rather take a rickshaw. (Farewell! God knows when we shall meet again. ~William Shakespeare) “Well then”, I said, ”I guess this is the last goodbye then”… Why couldn’t she see that I was trying to stall her as long as I could ? This was the last time we would meet. I knew it. She knew it. It was inevitable. It was fate. It was destined. And it was tragic. What about all the time we spent together? We did have good time… No we had a great time. I made sure of it, making sure she was laughing or smiling all the time. I was always bad at goodbyes.They never came out right… I always choked on my best prep...

Although it would make things much easier in the dating world,relationships rarely see mutual breakups. One person is usually the heart-breaker, while the other mulls over the breakup and pain for weeks,even months.  It’s never easy to break up with someone you’ve shared good times with (and even if they were bad times, they were still times).But the person who does the breaking up feels like less of a bad guy by offering that sense of truce: “It’s not you, it’s me. We’ll still be friends, right?” This peace offering of friendship provides the dumper with the solace of knowing they aren’t such a horrible person because they still want to be friends with their ex. I’ve created a monster Not only does it give the dumper the comfort of knowing they aren’t monsters, but by wanting to remain friends, it also allows the dumper to feel that their former lover will still be in their life, and they won’t have to miss having them around. So now the dumper can move on with the...

Hello everyone! Well, I would like to welcome myself on creating a new Blog as my existing one has been hacked!  Meaning?! I have to start from the scratch building my new blog. :( Well, as they say, everything happens for a reason. So the reason might be is for me to start a new chapter in my life after what had happened in the past. So let's start the mouse clicking and the keyboard typing and wish me luck in building my new world - hopefully a better place for my thoughts to stay  Have a great day everyone! BLOGGING STARTS NOW!