Relationship Truth Bases

All men deeply feel that his woman should trust him implicitly. Often some wonder why is it so difficult for their women to do something so seemingly simple such as trusting their word. The answer stems from the physiological differences between the sexes. 

It all starts at birth when little boys are given a distinct physical advantage over little girls by having higher levels of testosterone comes the physical strength to both defend themselves from danger and/ or run away from a threat. Many little girls don’t have the ability. They don’t have the strength to defend themselves in a physical fight when they feel threatened. If a boy trusts someone who in turn hurts them, they can always defend themselves physically or at least try to. 
 

Since a person can only trust from a position of strength, those same little girls will grow up into women who naturally have a more difficult time “trusting” they feel vulnerable. This is one of the reasons that even when men ask the woman to trust them, it is not that she can’t, it is just that she is more vulnerable. If men what their women to trust them then they will have to help them develop that trust. 
 

A woman needs to see her man fulfill his promises. When the woman you love sees your words lining up with your actions, trust will naturally follow. When you don’t keep your word, it causes your wife/girlfriend to become fearful. Then the series of big and small fights occur where only the trust factor seems to be missing. From her perspective, she has entrusted you with her heart and she really wants to trust you. She simply needs your help in giving you what you want.

-POI

Source: Bombay Times